Pieces written about my life float through my mind
onto paper, peppering the page with perceptions past
and present, others involved likely recalling disparate
details known as fact to them, and this is the timbre
and rhythm as we try and understand another's
viewpoint whilst holding on to our own version
of events, causing far more difficulties in dialogue,
requiring stating and restating, attempting to gain
clarity in seeing the other more lucidly and still
some lack the patience to truly grasp the heart
of the matter, matters of the heart;
Why can't we be like the vast ocean,
or the spreading fields now pleasantly dotted
with wildflowers of every hue, taking our cues
from nature as the breezes dance and mingle,
clearing the mind, cleansing the palate
to make ready for a sweet conversation
in which we both enjoy engaging?
You know it's there, deep inside,
because pleasantries are for the image conscious,
nodding yes when they mean something other
or more, a thing far too complex to curtail
into a sound bite; we need to take time,
give space to concepts that seem inadequate
and yet, weaving stories is like weaving
tapestries or should be, selection of colors
and textures and the rhythm
required to satisfy the teller of tales.
Desdemona - David Austin Rose - bj 2023
thank you, Bela
Yes! 🙏💕
Beautiful thoughts Bela… Indeed yes… We should all be like nature, grounded into Mother Earth growing, being the best versions of ourselves… Bending in the breeze and going with the flow… Which is more or less what I have been doing… Just taking each day as it comes Bela.. Enjoying decluttering, gardening, weeding out not only the garden, but the junk we carry through within our life times, not only the outward clutter.. But the inward clutter of thoughts which we hang onto .. Once we let them go, we see that the futility of holding onto them…
Loved your muse and your beautiful roses <3 <3 <3
Absolutely beautifully stated, Sue. Doing the same here! It’s a daily mindfulness practice in motion. Or stillness, as the case may be! Sending you loads of love! 💓
You hit the nail on the head today & it’s painful! Thank you 🙏💓🙋♂️
Uh oh! Well, I hope the pain leads to pleasure, as it often does if we experience it! Isn’t life full of contradictions?! 😍
A poignant reflection Bela. Thank you 💐🙏🏻💕
Thank You, Val! Have a blessed weekend! 🙏💕
yes we should all strive to be the finest versions of ourselves, based in Mother Earth’s growth. thanks for your beautiful views
Thanks for your kind comment! And of course I agree 😉
A lovely write up and musings, Bela. This line resonated strongly with me, ‘because pleasantries are for the image conscious.’ On one hand, pleasantries open up a conversation and even a connection. But on the other hand, when it’s only pleasantaries that you engage in with another, you do wonder what is the purpose of such a connection if you’re keen on something deeper. That said, some of us may need a bit more time to move beyond the surface and fully open up to each other – as you alluded to at the end, it’s a colourful world that we live in. I agree with what you and Sue said, about grounding in nature and taking each day as it comes. Don’t sweat on everything…which is something I’ve been learning. Hope you are having a wonderful Summer, Bela 😊💕
Hey, dear one, Sue and I have a few years on you! With age comes the sifting out of the inconsequential. “Don’t sweat the small stuff” doubtlessly came from someone over 60! 😝You are wise beyond your years, Mabel! Sending love! 💗
Yes, you and Sue certainly have years on you both and much more wisdom 😄🙏 Definitely have to keep in mind that not all things matter in the moment. Sending love back to you too, Bela 💕
Overwhelm is easy these days. And it’s true, not all things matter in the moment. But that we are In the moment, which is all we have any real effect on… yes! Blessings! 💓
So agree with you that overwhelm is easy these days. Embrace and enjoy each moment in the present. Much love, Bela 💕
And love to you, Mabel. Absolutely! Thank you. 💗
Hugs across the miles to you, Bela. Take care 🙏💕
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